Growth

Growth varies, it is an extremely subjective topic that when someone mentions their growth you might not be able to relate to them, but that doesn't make yours less than theirs, or vice versa. You define your growth, you choose what you want growth to be for you.

To me, it could be doing your laundry without fail weekly. Remembering to have 3 meals every day. Being able to see your parents for who they are, instead of their failure and incompetence, seeing them as the person they are individually, being able to separate them from what makes them them and a parent. 

Growth is inevitable. You can postpone it, but you cannot escape it.